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Most People Get Discipline Backwards

Most People Get Discipline Backwards

Charlie Munger on Why Discipline Creates Happiness

Most people think discipline is the opposite of happiness.

Charlie Munger believed the opposite.

In a recent article highlighting Munger's philosophy, one line jumped out at me:

"We have to be more disciplined to build lasting wealth."

That's not exactly revolutionary advice. But Munger's deeper point was that discipline isn't about deprivation—it's about removing many of the causes of unhappiness in the first place.

He argued that happiness comes from a handful of surprisingly simple disciplines:

  • Discipline your expectations so disappointment doesn't take root.

  • Discipline your finances so independence replaces dependence.

  • Discipline your thinking so you avoid obvious mistakes.

  • Discipline your emotions so envy doesn't consume your life.

  • Discipline your mind so it keeps growing.

That sounds a lot like Financial Independence.

Every dollar we save creates a little more freedom. Every skill we learn expands our options. Every irrational impulse we avoid preserves our future self's opportunities.

One of my favorite Munger quotes is:

"The first rule of a happy life is low expectations."

That doesn't mean thinking small. It means not tying your happiness to outcomes you can't control.

The FI community often focuses on the math of wealth. Munger reminds us that the real goal isn't a bigger portfolio—it's a better life.

And the habits that build wealth turn out to be many of the same habits that build happiness.aa...


Want More Travel Rewards Content?

Yesterday we released Episode 601 with Devon Gimbel from Point Me to First Class, a Travel Rewards 101 masterclass for anyone looking to travel better for less.

If you haven't listened yet, it's an absolute must-listen.

We previously called Travel Rewards a "Pillar of FI," and I think that's just as true in 2026 as it was in 2017. In fact, my own interest in traveling for nearly free has only intensified this year, and I plan to dramatically increase the amount of content we produce in this space.

To help make that happen, Jonathan has been building some incredible travel rewards functionality into the ChooseFI platform, and the first piece went live yesterday.

Check out the new Credit Card Tracker. It's designed to help you keep track of annual fees, benefits, renewal dates, signup bonuses, and everything else that comes with managing a travel rewards portfolio. It will even notify you when an annual fee is coming due or you're running out of time to earn a signup bonus.

I'm genuinely blown away by what he created.

And we're just getting started.

We have a comprehensive travel rewards course in the works, award-booking sweet spots, a travel forum, and much more content coming from both Devon and Noah, another travel rewards expert many of you recently heard on the podcast.

If travel rewards are your thing, you're going to love what's coming next.


A Secret Hidden in Plain Sight

I went to my 25th college reunion at the University of Richmond this past Saturday, and I came away with an observation I can't stop thinking about.

Over the course of the day, I had dozens of conversations with smart, successful people in their late 40s. These are people who graduated from one of the best universities in America. Many are doctors, lawyers, executives, business owners, and leaders in their fields.

And yet, a surprising number had never heard of Financial Independence.

Many had never even heard of using credit card rewards points to travel for nearly free.

Most couldn't quite wrap their heads around the fact that I had stopped working in my 30s.

It was a powerful reminder that what feels normal inside the ChooseFI community is anything but normal in the broader world.

When you're surrounded by people discussing index funds, tax optimization, Roth conversions, travel rewards, and intentional spending, it's easy to assume everyone knows this stuff.

They don't.

The ideas we talk about every week are still largely hidden from the vast majority of people.

That's why I want to encourage you not to underestimate what you're doing.

By learning about Financial Independence, you're gaining access to a set of principles that can completely change the trajectory of your life. You're learning how to buy back your time, create options, reduce stress, travel more, and build a life that aligns with your values.

In many ways, you've discovered one of the best-kept secrets not just in personal finance, but in life.

I can confidently say this: you're operating with knowledge and tools that most people, even highly educated, highly successful people, have never encountered.

Don't take that for granted.

Keep learning. Keep taking action. The payoff can be extraordinary.


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Podcast Discussion: Join in and give us your thoughts on the podcast. Here's the link to Episode 601 where Devon Gimbel and I go through a 2026 version of Travel Rewards 101.  This was a really great episode and we’d love for you to ask any questions you have for follow-up episodes.Travel Rewards Credit Cards: I keep my Top Ten Recommended Travel Rewards Cards page constantly updated, so it should always be your first source for your next travel rewards card.

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ChooseFI Community Taking Action This Week

C

This week, our investments crossed over into the double comma mark --- 7 years after really focusing on our finances! Thank you for the education and encouragement, you are changing lives!

Julianne

My 1% better this week: I received an unexpected check from Social Security under my name and my mother's (who is deceased). I called Social Security to verify if it was real and I could cash it. I learned that mom's account had a refund that was due to my father. He was deceased so the we children were entitled to her refund.

Then, on his account, he also had a refund to be paid out! We were entitled to 100% of that refund. I simply had to complete the paperwork and voila, we were now due over $300 total. Had I not called, we wouldn't have known. Nice win!

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We are definitely optimizing for memories. However, it has not been easy; fear and the feeling of being financially irresponsible are emotions we constantly try to acknowledge and keep in check.

One thing that has been incredibly beneficial is our partnership with Abundo. My financial advisor is fantastic, and we consistently find ourselves talking more about life than just money or investing. While the technical setup was our initial focus, once that foundation was laid, we slowly navigated toward using our income and assets to actually enjoy life.

As a result, we have started doing "mini-retirements" of one month per year in Spain and Italy.

To give some context on what I mean by "financially irresponsible" in 2026: we have already booked our third mini-retirement to Italy, but this year we also decided to finish our basement. Combined, we are "investing" over $100,000 between travel and home renovations.

This initially led to some fear, but after talking to my advisor who gave us a "pat on the back" and confirmed that our savings and income levels remain strong, we decided to move forward.

We are excited to create memories both in Italy and at home with our young boys.

Lisa

We had been saving for a new car for my husband and were ready to make the purchase. We found that through the vagaries of car sales in today's world, the new car was no more expensive than the used model.

We spent time comparing different places, researching what it should cost, and making a list of stupid things we would not allow them to add (I'm looking at you, $75 first aid kit). We looked into shipping a car from out of state to see if that would save money. He found the car he wanted at two dealers near us. He went to the first alone (to be able to say easily, "Yeah, sorry, can't make a decision without my wife"). He got their best deal from them in writing. Then, he drove to another dealer and gave them the paper. He told them he wasn't there to negotiate.

He was there to buy the car if they would beat the other deal by $2k. He went at the end of the month, which we had learned was the best time. They agreed, but didn't have the car anymore. No problem. They found another one in a nearby city and went and got it for him. Overall, we paid LESS than we would have for a two-year-old model, we paid cash (of course), and we used AI to help us along the way to make sure we had a good deal.

My years of listening to the podcast have taught me that whoever is willing to walk away, wins. We have also learned to enjoy the process of research in pursuit of a goal. We were totally willing to not buy a car (I mean, that 20 year old car was still running, even though it was held together with duct tape, not kidding), and that empowered us.

Our youngest just graduated from law school a year ago, and my husband has sacrificed so much for our kids' college and law school. The feeling of being able to pay cash for his dream car is indescribable. This is freedom.

Andy

Writing in 3+ years later to share another success with you. In April of this year I recently worked up the courage to initiate another conversation with my boss about a raise - my last one being this 25% raise I shared with you back in 2022. After about 4-5 months of conversation/negotiation I secured a *30%* raise.

The equation was more or less the same as last time,
I made every attempt to give 110% effort everyday for about 8 months so that I felt confident when I came to the table to negotiate. I even made some atypical moves along the way to keep my focus on getting the raise - e.g. spent a little more $ eating meals out, hired out a few house projects I would typically have done myself. My brain can only handle so much at one time.

I've taken a lot of pride in my FI achievements so far - eliminating debt, cutting spending, 40+% savings rate, investing in low cost index funds etc. but when it comes to my personal journey to FI, supercharging my way there has seemingly taken the courage and energy by far, which makes me all the more excited to share the news.

Beth

2nd Gen FI win: I have maxed out all the spreadsheets I can do for myself at the moment, so I started tracking my kid's net worth. Between Edvest contributions and TreasuryDirect gifts from family, they are doing pretty well at 1 and 4 years old 😂 I hope they will come to appreciate that I've tracked this for them from birth one day.

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