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I got laid off and now make $30k less

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Nicole Franq · · 1 reply

Hi all,

Long story short about a year ago I lost my job and was laid odd. I made about $150k but was miserable and had to take a mental health leave - the layoff was about a month after I got back. I spiraled during that job and by the time I got laid off, I went into $30k worth of debt.

I have landed a much better job in terms of my mental health but I have had to cut back significantly - I have tried to interview but it’s really rough in the tech industry right now even with a stellar resume.

I’m not the golden employee and I struggle each day but I still try my best. I’m wondering if you all have some advice when taking a step back in your career.

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Roberto Sánchez

Roberto Sánchez

1 year ago

I pushed really really hard with work for a while (starting about 10 years ago and lasting for a little over 5 years). The financial benefits are very real. But looking back, I sacrificed time with family, sleep, and health. Nothing irreversible, but there are definitely times I wish I would have been more aware of the need for balance. So, look at this opportunity as a way to test out a different balance point in your life. Also, realize that your career is not your identity (it might be for a very small group of people, but for the rest of us it just isn't). Think about what you would do with your time and your life in general once you no longer have work in the picture. Then start experimenting on a small scale with those things, little by little.

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