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Solo Female Retirees/Travelers

Solo Female Retirees/Travelers

tortugas
tortugas 327 XP · · 19 replies

As a solo childfree female retiree/traveler, I'm looking for other solo female retirees who occasionally travel/live in other countries to chat with and share helpful information. Some info about me:

  • Retired last year at age 57 on a limited budget
  • Do not have a million dollars
  • No kids, no house, no car, no pets
  • No medical insurance so no bike
  • Vegan

I categorized this thread in the logistics category because I would love to talk to other solo females about how you manage day to day living by yourself with limited assistance from others and still manage to travel. I lived in Mexico last winter and hope to do so again this winter but looking for destination suggestions.

I'm also happy to share vegan tips since the price of food has risen. For example, I love my Instant Pot RIO that I purchased from Costco in the spring. I mainly use it to make large batches of jasmine brown rice from Trader Joe's to keep in the fridge for quick meals.

Looking forward to chatting and forming a community of independent women!😀

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Replies (19)

Elizabeth Louise

Elizabeth Louise

37 XP

5 months ago

Hi there 👋🏻 New to the FI Community but not necessarily the mindset, so excited to be here.

Single, childfree 44yo female with aspirations to either move abroad and/or travel full time within the next year. Don't know how long for or how work will fit into it yet (not near retirement) but have had the itch for years and don't want to put it off any longer. My current job requires me to be in the US.

Currently based in Maryland, previously from NYC, and love that I found this forum. I would love to build more community with other woman who are driven to explore or crave life on the road. 😃

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

4 months ago

Welcome! I'm glad you found the Nomad & Expats forum. Which countries have you traveled to and where are you planning on going next?

I recently returned from 5.5 months in Mexico during the winter and I'm glad to be back in my home base in Michigan for the summer. As I approach 60, I'm finding traveling to be more and more exhausting so I'm glad I did most of my long term periods abroad when I was younger. I encourage everyone to travel as much as you can while you can before various obstacles prohibit you from accomplishing all of your goals.

Do you have vacation time you can use to help satisfy your itch to travel and explore while you figure out how to live abroad or travel full time?

jkinthedmv

jkinthedmv

378 XP

7 months ago

I am 60, no kids but close to my niece and nephew who currently live near me. For a variety of reasons, I decided not to renew the lease on the place I have rented for the last year (prior to that I was living in a house that my siblings and I sold last autumn). I had planned to find a small place to purchase as a home base, but the market (DC area) is not great right now, so I am thinking of choosing another rental – or putting my stuff in storage and taking a long trip. How long? I don't know - I'm at the imagining stage. I think it would be challenging to not have a home base, though. I don't have a lot of stuff, having decluttered extensively in recent years; but, I do have a few things I'd like to keep. I am free to travel. I don't mind traveling solo - when I do, I usually find activities in the places I travel to (rather than attending a travel tour for example). If anyone has tips about choosing a place to store one's furniture/books/papers for 3-9 months, please share your tips! Or, if you highly recommend keeping a home base, I'd like to hear your thoughts on that. Thanks :-)

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

7 months ago

I've been in Mexico for 4 months but still have a home base in Michigan. I do not like paying for two places to live when I'm in Mexico, especially with the high Airbnb prices, but it's comforting to know that I have a home base to go back to whenever I want. I do not sublet my tiny apartment when I'm gone because I'm not sure how long I'll be in Mexico. Plus, I like having a real address for U.S. banks whereas other people use a friend or relative's address.

MartyJo

MartyJo

115 XP

7 months ago

I found this post while searching travel ideas. Soon to be retired!

Early 50s, have 2 kids in college and 2 still at home, my husband and I both love to travel, but someone needs to watch/raise the kids, so we have an agreement that we are both planning to take at least 2 "solo" trips without each other each year.

I have travelled the US extensively - both with family and as part of my corp job over the last 30 years, and some international travel with family (Europe, Mexico, Belize) as well as for corp work (Europe), now looking forward to being able to have time to explore south america, asia, more of Europe.

I'm comfortable travelling alone, but find myself wanting to have others to connect with and talk to after a couple days. I have looked a bit at some of the group travel that is offered by companies like gadventure.

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

7 months ago

Congratulations on your upcoming retirement, MartyJo! That's great that you plan to do some solo travel. I haven't done any group travel with any companies but maybe others in this thread have recommendations.

TravelGirl84

TravelGirl84

170 XP

1 year ago

Hi everyone!

Solo, childfree, not retired.

I currently work at a school, so I had this summer off and went and stayed in AZ for the summer, which was AWESOME. Next summer if I am still working this job and have summers off again, I don't want to be paying any rent. I was hoping to go to Thailand or the Philippines, but ticket prices, and the overall costs, might just be too high this year for me to swing it. I have been a house sitter off and on for 20 years so I thought I might try and do that. It would be hard to commit to anything yet since the budget at my job is always changing and I could be in a total different situation this time next year. Ultimately I would like to get a remote situation that allows me to be a nomad, but right now I am really loving this job, so I am just waiting and seeing what happens and saving as much money as I can living small.

Anyone read any good women on the road/traveling books lately? Last one I read was Cait Flanders Adventures in Opting Out, which I did not enjoy. Then the one before that was Never Leave the Dogs by Brianna Madia, which was ok. I could really use some Eat Pray Love quality vibes.

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

1 year ago

Hi Libby!

I'm sorry I don't have any good women on the road traveling books to recommend but I have been enjoying watching Mora Margaret on YouTube about her travels in Mexico with her 2 dogs. She has some beautiful footage of an Airbnb she stayed in with an amazing view of a lake in Pátzcuaro, Mexico.

Where did you stay in Arizona? I've been thinking about spending some time there to check it out but haven't decided which city/area to explore. Any recommendations? I think saving money and living small while you can really helps give you a cushion for future travel possibilities without stressing so much about money. I'm so glad I sold my car and lived below my means for the last couple of years so I can live off of my savings while I plan my next trip.

SilverFaux

SilverFaux

14 XP

1 year ago

Hello. I’m a single female interested in solo travel. I am no where near FI have a full time job as a RN. This fall I have a trip planned for the Northeastern part of PA and a trip to the San Diego area in December to visit family.

I’m currently researching travel options for Hawaii. Alaska will be next, then I plan to start my international travels.

Always interested in hearing tips on how to do things and places of interest/must see/do.

leslie

leslie

25 XP

1 year ago

Oh, Hawaii is amazing, but can be expensive! It really is gorgeous. Do you know what island you'll be going to? What are you doing in NEPA? I'm in Philadelphia.

ATLfi

ATLfi

174 XP

1 year ago

I’m 56, partially retired, already FI, and often travel solo internationally. Asia and South America are relatively inexpensive. I’m in the Atlanta area. I’ve been to 9 countries so far in 2025 and have two more trips planned this year. Id be happy to collaborate 😊

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

1 year ago

I've lived in Taiwan and traveled to Indonesia years ago but I've been thinking about trying Thailand and Malaysia for Medical Tourism. My medical experiences in Mexico so far have been ok, but not as nice as I had hoped.

Which countries have you traveled to and what's next on your list?

leslie

leslie

25 XP

1 year ago

Hey there, I'm a female, childfree retired vegan solo traveler too! Escaping the winters in the Northeast is imperative for me. The past few years I've spent 4-12 weeks in Mexico, Bali, Hawaii, Columbia / Peru and Costa Rica.

In terms of how I manage, I live pretty frugally in a small home-base studio apartment, eating most meals at home (healthier and cheaper and easier than eating out as a vegan... although Philadelphia has some amazing vegan restaurants). While traveling, I do the same. Slow travel usually allows me to find some better deals since a monthly "long-term" rental can sometimes be the same price as a hotel for a week. I try to cook at home and I'm not doing a lot of expensive tourtisty things. I also try to travel where friends are or with friends as much as possible to save money.

To combat the loneliness that can sometimes happen, I'm experimenting with doing some kind of class or retreat in the beginning of my journey so that I have some contacts and grounding.

As for destination suggestions, I'd love some as well! On my list is Vietnam and Cambodia but I've been thinking India for this winter. I usually like to have an idea of what I'm doing by end of October.

Workaway is a cool resource. Lots of different opportunites from manual labor on farms to teaching english for private families... all in exchange for room, sometimes room and board.
www.workaway.info

I haven't personally used couchsurfing but I've know people who have
www.couchsurfing.com

And of course there's the Happy Cow app for Vegans which I'm sure you know about.

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

1 year ago

I've heard of workaway but haven't tried it or couchsurfing yet. Happy Cow and Google reviews are good for finding vegan restaurants/stores. I've mostly rented rooms in Airbnbs when I've traveled. I also have a small apartment for my home base and cook most of my meals at home to save money because vegan food is very expensive no matter where you go for some strange reason.

I like to slow travel as well but I've left some Airbnbs after only a few days due to one reason or another so I hate to commit to long term stays. Trying to get a refund from Airbnb is usually not worth the hassle or the risk of a bad review from the host.

Let us know where you plan to go this winter when you've made a decision!

emily613

emily613

192 XP

1 year ago

Hi! I am 43, childfree, and looooove to solo travel. I've been a full digital nomad before and I would love to do it again in about a year and a half. I currently have an apartment in Westchester, NY. The reason for the timeline is that I got a new job about a year ago, and I'm working on a professional certification that will take about that long to finish. I would definitely be open to a house swap though!

In the past I've done with it with my car or just one big suitcase /backpack with all my worldly possessions. When I was younger, I loved working seasonally (hospitality/waiting tables) in all the places that I wasn't willing to spend the money to visit. 2 summers in Alaska, ski season in Montana, and a year in Colorado in the mountains. coolworks.com if you are interested. Housing is usually not great quality, but it's usually very affordable. Food/cooking can be challenging if you don't work at a restaurant. BUT I cannot recommend it highly enough! I was able to live in some fantastic places for next to nothing and make some decent money too.

The other side of my very random career is all accounting, bookkeeping, and now financial planning. I've been very lucky that I have been able to work remote long before it was cool! I usually move cities in the US every few months to visit different groups of friends and family or attend an amazing event or festival. I definitely chase the best weather whenever I can. I hate the heat, so I usually plan my target cities by the most tolerable weather for the year (for example New Orleans in January). I usually drive between the cities (while in the US) and I rarely plan out more than about 3-6 months at a time. I've used several different websites in the US (AirBnB, etc). I really liked Landing (hellolanding.com). They have a standby option for $1,500/mo (scroll down to the bottom of the page). They have nice apartments, fully furnished and utilities included. Sometimes parking is kinda interesting, but I've been able to find free garage parking/street parking so far. Availability varies, but I've had good luck getting apartments in cool places. Definitely look at the fine print on the standby option. You can get bumped from the unit that you are in if someone books it at the market price, but I've always had great luck getting another unit in the same apartment complex, nearby, or just opting to go to a new city and have new adventures. I would love to coordinate with other digital nomads while on the road!

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

1 year ago

Thanks for the coolworks and hellolanding tips! Sounds like you've had some great experiences working in different cities. I love the freedom and flexibility of the childfree and pet free lifestyle. Being car free limits my travel in the states but it also helps me save money. I wouldn't have been able to retire at 57 if I still had a car because I wouldn't have been able to afford the car insurance and maintenance plus gas costs.

My previous employer retiree ID lets me ride city buses for free which helps me run errands like grocery shopping which is a fantastic perk. I just have to be prepared for occasionally getting on the wrong buses which happened a couple of times today but since I'm retired and the weather was great, I enjoyed the free tours around town to help me learn the bus routes. Happy Accidents! 😀

YamZ93

YamZ93

265 XP

1 year ago

I see myself as a solo female traveler too, though I do have a home base that I return to and live in most of the year. I like to travel on my own, but also like to live close to my family and I'm not yet retired so have a job to get to.

Would love to chat with fellow solo female travelers <3

My upcoming trip will take me to the US - to St Louis, New York, Milwuakee and Orlando, so hopefully I'll be able to meet some FI people too!

tortugas

tortugas

327 XP

1 year ago

Hope you have a good trip in the states! Looks like we won't have a chance to meet since I'm in Michigan but let me know if you ever come this way. I'm really enjoying being at my home base for the moment and not living out of a suitcase, but Michigan winters are not fun so I'm still trying to figure out what to do this winter.

Being home helps me save money so I might try to tough out this coming winter or only snowbird for a short amount of time instead of the entire winter. Anyone know of any good Arizona snowbird spots?

emily613

emily613

192 XP

1 year ago

I'm in NY about an hour to Grand Central by train. If you want some company or a place to crash when you are here, let me know!

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